In this Podcast Lee and Colleen talk about the importance of choosing to embrace a story about your marriage and divorce that gives you the opportunity to heal and move past the pain of your divorce. Doing this will make it possible for you to grow and move into your next chapter without past baggage dragging you down. They discuss how some people let old resentments not only drag them down but also hurt the kids by keeping the fight alive for many years past the divorce. They also share how some of their own healing included radical honesty with themselves about why they were unhappy in their marriages. They both found joy post-divorce by stepping back into their own power, learning to truly love themselves and finding what lit them up inside.