It takes time and practice to be ok with being alone or single after divorce. Many of us, me included, jumped on dating sites pretty quickly thinking it was so important to fill that void of a significant other.

When this stems from the fear of being alone, it leads to possibly settling or staying in relationships where you are not appreciated or treated well.

Try to take the time to find hobbies that light you up inside, spend time with friends, enjoy your own company so that you are enough for yourself if it takes a while to find someone who you choose to compliment you because they add to your life.

It is a process, it can take time, I learned slowly after I got out of a few back to back relationships, I finally spent some time single and realized it was not as lonely or scary as I had anticipated.