It is freeing when we stop trying to understand, evaluate and judge other’s actions and decisions. We cannot change others, no matter how how we try. 

We can influence them maybe with unconditional love, constructive feedback and support but at the end of the day, they are responsible for their life choices. 

We are all on our own journey for the time we are here on earth. We share love and beautiful experiences with others but their journey is theirs and yours is yours.